The Insatiable Seducer
An ‘insatiable ‘person is one who is impossible to satisfy, their appetite and desires are impossible to quench. This is a great way to describe a seducer. To successfully seduce every victim that crosses your way, you must be okay with the idea of your time with them potentially having an expiry date. This is not to say a seducer will never settle down or be in a stable relationship. It simply suggests that a seducer does not romanticise their life by attaching it to the existence of someone else. Your mindset should be about what you want to benefit from your target in the long run, therefore wanting to seduce your target may be for material, financial, sexual, or societal gain. Whatever the reason may be, you should decide the beginning and end of your plan - this way you hold the power in any situation or relationship you find yourself in.
Additionally, the mind of a seducer should be coated in resilience. Being resilient suggests that you can recover quickly from mishaps and other difficulties. Seduction is not a game for the weak and there will be unpredictable circumstances. For example, let’s pretend you have been able to successfully seduce your target, and now you are having issues with their family member which is now putting your relationship with your target at detriment, you must be able to quickly scheme a game plan to getting them on your side. This goes back to the point of being insatiable - there will hurdles along the way, and you need to be quick on your feet and able to regain control whenever you feel you are losing it.
Your target may not be your only concern; there may be other people who are also trying to seduce them. You need to have an eye on the competition and know what they are doing at all times. Being able to read people and know what they are thinking is a huge advantage in this game. You need to be able to anticipate their next move, and have a counter ready for it. If someone is trying to steal your target away from you, then you need to be able to figure out how they will do it, and then put up a new plan of attack.
The final, most crucial trait you must adopt is patience. It may take a day, a week, a month or even a year to get someone to be exactly where you want them to. This also hugely depends on their lifestyle - let's say you are trying to seduce a billionaire, a celebrity or a footballer. Their lifestyle involves a lot of travelling and moving around, so finding the right event and the right time to place yourself in their life may be hard to plan. Thus, you need to be patient, and take the time to successfully create a strategic position for yourself into their life. The reason why most seducers fail is due to the opposite of this: impatience. They want to seduce someone now, and they will do anything to get it done. This is a huge mistake because you need to understand that seduction is an art form that takes time and patience. If you are patient and strategic, then success will come; if not, then failure is inevitable.
The key to becoming a true seducer is adopting the mindset of hunger: determine how badly you want to be successful in the dating world; then, act on that desire. If you are not hungry to seduce someone, then there is no way you will ever do it successfully.
Is your target an ex or someone new? The strategy you adopt must be different for each. An ex can be more difficult to seduce because you have already had a relationship with this person. They know your personality and may even have seen you in some less-than-stellar lighting. If you are trying to seduce an ex, then you need a plan of attack that will help them see you in a different light or forget about their previous perceptions of you. When seducing someone new, you need to be fresh and exciting. You must be willing to put on a show for them. It is also much easier. You have no history together and can make up whatever story you want about your past. The ideal situation is one where the other person has never seen you in a romantic context before. I'll go over the steps to seduce each of them in the next chapter of the course.
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